INFJ

When does an INFJ-T stop caring

A lot or things which make an INFJ-T stop caring; doorslam (s), being used, depressed, existential crisis(es), and one more obvious in my self.

I'd devote a lot to my family, friends, and even more to other people around me.

My life is about how I can be useful for other people.

When someone I thought needed help, I'd help without a second thought.When someone was walking alone, I'd walk beside them and accompany them until they didn't feel alone anymore.When someone grew distant, I'd make an attempt to pull them closer to whatever they've strayed away from.

If someone needed something I had, I'd give it to them because it'll help them more than it'll help me.I thought to myself that the world would be a better place if everyone acted on every opportunity of kindness they came across. It turns out, whenever I became helpless, I thought others would come to my aid, like how I did. It never happened. 

I dedicate my life

When I walked alone, nobody accompanied me, even though they saw me stand alone.When I grew distant from something, nobody roped me in. I just floated out into the sea.When I needed a lifebouy, nobody threw me one, even when they could swim. They'd rather relax and float casually than to save a life. They'd rather watch me drown and not bat an eye.

 I was taught to exemplify my ideals and morals through my actions; so I did. These people didn't know, so maybe I can teach them.Soon after, reality set in and my naivety crushed my judgement. Nobody really cared about your ideals. There's nothing to expect, because expectations can't be superimposed.And this didn't happen in general; It was even more prominent in my personal relationships with others.

So I began to grow tired.

I didn't see a reason to care for others, so I began to focus that care for things I could count on; myself. No matter how much I cared for others, nothing would get through to them. I'd eventually be used.

But the moment an INFJ-T leaves, an INFJ-T never visits again.

Not because they've lost empathy for you.Not because they've become heartless.Not because they're cold, ruthless, and are closed to last chances.

But because they don't see a reason to anymore.

Yeah, when I couldn't find any reason to stay. I'll go away and never come back to touch your life.

Because in my mind you'll be fine without my existence, you don't need me, you don't care of me, and getting ignore me. So, that's perfect time to go out from your life. When I am gone from your life, I 'd gIve lil bit life learning for you and hopefully you will understand the hidden meaning in the future and realize what I've taught. Because In my mind, "Saving someone's life doesn't have to wear Superhero uniform, right ?". You can see me walk away from your life and you will think how bad I am, and see me from the negative side.That's fine, cuz I am done.

This isn't just a decision made by the heart. This is also made up by their mind. An INFJ-T gives their final answer wholeheartedly, truthfully, certainly, permanently, and absolutely